LOA Specific Person - Help!?

Hi, am new to the forum, trying out L of A with regards to a specific person (I know, a challenge!) whom I do believe to be 'the one' but can anyone help, should my visualisations be person specific or general? Have quite a vivid imagination so visualising isn't much of a problem, it's just the details of it? Should I put 'him' in there or just 'someone' in general, obviously leaving names etc out of scenarios!

Also, I know the difference between wanting & having, but do I imagine 'having' and feel the feelings of having just during my visualisations? All gets a bit confusing for me never mind the Universe!!

Any advice would be appreciated! Thank you!!!! Lou x

 

Always be as specific as possible, so visualise the person and name them by name etc. Visualise them as if they are here with you right now in the present moment.

When your mind gets used to the idea (through repetition typically) that what you are attracting is already in place and real, then those small things that can make it happen will make themselves apparent. The trick then is to act on them as they happen... as the LoA isn't about magically making something happen without any action on your own part... it's about heightening your awareness to see the opportunities that can make it happen.

Of course, where another person is involved, there's alway the chance that they don't want the same, so you can only do your best, and accept whatever the outcome is.

Hugs

Giles

 

hi lou,
I also was wanting to attract a certain person into my life using the law of attraction but didn't know how to achieve that because of free will etc.
Anyway, i spent alot of time concentrating on this - months infact - when i came across the solution out of the blue when i was online one day.
The way it works is believing and being grateful that you are the best, most attractive person u can be and therefore attracting (whoever) to you happily of their own free will.
It really is all about you and the way you feel about yourself that is going to attract this person to you, know and feel good that you posses an abundance of love for yourself first and foremost that makes you so attractive etc be grateful for how attractive you really are and the universe will take care of the details of when, where and how. So just love yourself and flow with it
Believe me, it really works!!!! It worked for me

 

I read your reply. With no intention to object, I do have a question: what if I don't have anybody specific in my mind but I do have a clear idea what this person could look like or where probably she should be from, how her character/nature would be? Then I'd not be able to visualize her completely, right? or I cannot give her a name as well.

I'm asking this, because I had a break up with someone who came very close to my own mental description in every way, so if i try to visualize my ideal person, she'd come in my mind, which is obviously unwanted. So how can we say that we should visualize her/give her a name?

Apart from the above, I guess being specific helps. Also, should I visualize the expectation about her while meditating?

 

i say don't force anything, there has to be an attraction and just focus on becoming and being as attractive as possible being yourself