Hi Thanh !
I too, reluctantly, have to agree with Grey and Ta-tsu-wa.
Since they allready covered the why's, I won't go into it any further.
I wanted to ask you another tip: I always have a very sad expression on my face, what could I do about that?
I've just read a little about mind drugs and I'm a bit scared!
any suggestion?? please!
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For this I have a very strange and somewhat dumb sounding tip:
Try to smile more !
I know how this sounds, but the strange thing is, it really is how the brain works. The brain reacts to your face smiling just as it works the other way around. When you see something funny ( like a funny movie or something, or check out Youtube for animal crackers or whatever ) you can't help but smile, and smiling gives off hormones that make you feel better.
For now it may seem that this doesn't help, as depression usually feels like trying to swim in a puddle of tar, and laughing only seems to give relief at the very moment you are laughing, and right after that it seems that you get plunged back into the tarpit.
But doing it the other way around, by forcing your facial muscles into a smile also works ! It tricks your body into believing everything is good, which reduces stress and makes you feel better.
Just like returning your attention to the mantra in meditation, try to smile as soon as you notice your face is going into a sad expression.
To illustrate just how powerful this can be, a man in the US was told he had cancer and had only a few more months to live, and he made sure he watched funny movies every evening for at least 2 hours.
He became an expert in laughing, was happy all through the day, and the stress relief that came from it helped his body in reducing the cancer, and after a year the cancer was gone, without any chemical treatment or surgery.
Now these cases are rare, and sadly it doesn't work for anybody, or we would change our way of curing people.
But smiling can't possibly interfere with your medication, and your medication just does the same to your body a simple smile can do.
one to get you started:
YouTube - Hahaha