Gidday D2iekan, its good that you observe stuff about youself, and address it. Enlighten Q is a total system based on learning to maximise focus and concentration, you might want to give that a look.
Whatever sytem you use, there is no substitute for practice. A simple one is finding what senses you prefer using. For instance, some people are visual, some sound based, some can use their imagination to focus on ideas easily, some are physical and like things like Tai Chi, Yoga etc. Say you like sounds, the idea is to sit somewhere comfortably, pick out one sound you wish to focus on, and do just that. When you find your attention wandering from the sound, you simply bring it back.
Its a good exercise at gauging just how much control you have over your mind, and seeing what the mind can do. A little bit like deciding to drive a car to the shop, yet, letting go of the steering wheel and allowing the car to go anywhere a rut in the road takes it. If we are not the mind, and the mind is our creation and tool, its good to have the ability to be fully aware of that, and to be the master of your tools, not visa versa.
All the best.
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