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Old March 3rd, 2010, 03:09   #11 (permalink)
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I happen to have a solution that lets you play just as much video games as before, if not more so! I have tried this myself. In the morning, my mobile phone wakes me up an hour early. (I recommend starting with no more than half an hour the first months though.) I then spend that time in emptiness while playing LifeFlow until the mobile phone goes off a second time. I feel a bit dazed right afterwards, but I used to feel dazed in the morning anyway. And I am less tired at work than I was before when I slept as late as I physically could. Success! I have as much time for my life as before, if not more so, and still get to enjoy the benefits of whole-brain synchronization and growth of awareness. Recommended!

(Incidentally, after some months this way you may notice that you feel less need to set bullies on fire and more attraction to tomes of timeless wisdom. Or perhaps that's just me...)

Hahahaha, i love it! Sounds like a great idea. I have actually been waking up hour earlier than usual to meditate in the mornings. But, my schedule gets so messed up when i don't get at least 6 hours sleep, so the first thing i wipe out to get that sleep is my one hour morning time. When i do actually wake up to meditate in the morning, it feels soooo good, and i love myself and the way i feel for doing it. Also, i like to tell myself that meditating for 20 minutes in the morning is more beneficial than sleeping an extra hour...agreed?
 
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Old March 4th, 2010, 21:08   #12 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Itlandm View Post
I happen to have a solution that lets you play just as much video games as before, if not more so! I have tried this myself. In the morning, my mobile phone wakes me up an hour early. (I recommend starting with no more than half an hour the first months though.) I then spend that time in emptiness while playing LifeFlow until the mobile phone goes off a second time. I feel a bit dazed right afterwards, but I used to feel dazed in the morning anyway. And I am less tired at work than I was before when I slept as late as I physically could. Success! I have as much time for my life as before, if not more so, and still get to enjoy the benefits of whole-brain synchronization and growth of awareness. Recommended!

(Incidentally, after some months this way you may notice that you feel less need to set bullies on fire and more attraction to tomes of timeless wisdom. Or perhaps that's just me...)
Hm so im not the only one who feels like coming from mars after waking up? I thought thatīd be a bad time for LF...maybe i should try that too
 
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Old March 4th, 2010, 21:15   #13 (permalink)
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if you have a problem with getting up an hour early and meditating for 20 minutes, you can get up half an hour early and meditate for 20 minutes. The thing is, you have to actually meditate rather than just want to, like with every other thing. Many short meditation sessions are better than no long ones.

If you know that you can actually gain more time by meditation, and yet find yourself sabotaging your practice, then I can only advise that you reflect on what you really want. Meditation will change you. While it is healthy for your body, it will also change your mind. You will become more aware of all things, and gradually a stillness will begin to grow inside you. If this scares you, you have to decide whether you really want it or not. It is only your decision, not ours. It is not like anyone will condemn you for living the way you have always done. It is just that based on our experience, it is possible to get an even better life. How much you change is largely a matter of how much you put into it. It cannot be hurried, but it can be slowed, even stopped. The choice is in your hands, each new day. You can stop anytime. Or you can go forward, anytime.
 
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Old March 4th, 2010, 21:26   #14 (permalink)
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there is no need to worry that the mantra will crowd out your thoughts. Over time, your mantra will become transparent, and you will start to notice thoughts moving as if on their own on the surface of your mind, even though you are still holding on to the mantra. You can not be thinking these thoughts, because you have chosen to hold on to the mantra and are actively doing so. But they are still there, moving, like raindrops running down the outside of a window pane. By observing this you will know from experience that you are actually not thinking all "your" thoughts, but a lot of them just happen automatically. Your brain kind of produces thoughts like the kidneys produce urine, except hopefully at least most of your thoughts are a bit more dignified than that... but it really is a natural process that you can observe.

And if you hear nothing in your head except the mantra, that is fine too. Enjoy it while it lasts!
 
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Old March 5th, 2010, 13:00   #15 (permalink)
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What Itlandm said is very true Speedy !

I sometimes think of the mind as a computer that is constantly trying to find useful thoughts for the situation you are in at that time. As this is done on a sub-concious level, your brain will not discriminate the thoughts. If it seems relevant, it will produce the thought.
Kind of like that thingy in Google, when you type some search-word slightly wrong , it will say " Did you mean to say .....? "

Often this is very useful, but sometimes it is just rediculous. Mind can't judge that. It is up to you to conciously decide if it is useful or not.

In the meditative state, thoughts will eventually slow down. Most people think that this is what meditation is about, willing your thoughts to stop, but one can only do that for a certain amount of time and it takes great effort.
When meditation requires effort, you are doing something wrong, it kind of is the golden rule in meditation.
But how can one stop thought effortlessly ?

Well, you can't, at least not directly.

The method that Michael teaches is to observe your thoughts as if they are clouds, or like Itlandm poetically said, raindrops on the outside of your window.

See them come up, and see them disappear again.

You don't have to act upon every thought, if you leave it alone, it will gently and effortlessly disappear. You see, if you act upon that thought, treat it with attention, that will be a trigger to the mind that you want to know more about that topic, and it will continue to produce more thought for you. You requested it after all by giving that thought attention. So, when you have no intention to react to a thought, your mind sees no need to continue on the topic at hand.

That is all there is to it. Now this may take some practice, as we have been taught to act upon thoughts right away every time one appears.
You will inevitably find yourself immersed in a daydream at a certain point.
And that is ok. Don't be mad or annoyed that you allowed yourself to drift, but instead be glad that you noticed this, and use your mantra to guide yourself back into effortless attention without intention.

After some time, your mind will notice that the thoughts are being left alone, and it will slow down or, like Itlandm said, occasionally it will even stop for a while. This however is rare, and not the goal of meditation.

In fact, there is no goal to meditation other than meditation itself.

I hope this was useful for you
 
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Old March 5th, 2010, 17:10   #16 (permalink)
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You don't have to act upon every thought, if you leave it alone, it will gently and effortlessly disappear. You see, if you act upon that thought, treat it with attention, that will be a trigger to the mind that you want to know more about that topic, and it will continue to produce more thought for you. You requested it after all by giving that thought attention. So, when you have no intention to react to a thought, your mind sees no need to continue on the topic at hand.
I like that, thanks
 
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