My log: Will visualisation work for me ???

[Edwin]

Originally Posted by meme

I am learing the LOA and statring to meditate using Michael's discs. However, I have a problem with knowing whether or not it is right ti visulize the healing for my marrige. My husband is also struggling with universal things but is pressing through with a divorce. How can two people look at this so differently?...will they cancel each other out. We had a great love which got misplaced. My desire is to start a new love together his is to keep us apart. Any thoughts on this. Judith

I want to be carefull with this one, that's why I didn't answer right away.

All I can say is according to the LOA, your emotions are an indicator.

If it feels good, you are doing it right.

If you feel bad, you must be doing something wrong.

And just like I shouldn't focus on my debts, you shouldn't focus on your divorce. Focus on having a good relationship with your husband. If it still doesn't work out, your working on having a good relationship with your husband just might leave you with a friend instead of an enemy

That way it's not your fault, there is absolutely no way with the LOA that you can influence one person. He has a mind of his own, and he decides in the end.

Hope it helps

[Edwin]

Everybody has to deal with it when they have a job:

Work related stress.

Even tho I am now starting to learn how to let go of feelings like anxiousness, being stressed or other feelings that are bad for my health, there are times that it can get me.
The stress I have to deal with mostly at this moment is financial stress, and even tho there is light at the end of the tunnel, there is a real possibility I might never make it out, from a business point of view.

However, feeling positive and knowing things will be good in the future is starting to pay off.
There is a very good chance that, if I manage to keep my business going for just 2-3 months, I will get the orders needed to end all my financial worries, as the Royal Dutch Navy has shown interest in my products.
Strange thing is that it didn't need much work from me, they wrote me a letter and I gave them a price for the services they required, and after a short 30 minute interview I was hired
The only real effort I took has to have been my months long trying to work out how visualisation works.

I do have to find a way to fill in the gap between now and coming months, so I will have to visualise lots of money appearing on my bank account, but since I am getting results I think I know now how to do it.

Just thinking about customers giving me a call for an order they want to place gets me results within sometimes even 5 minutes !
All the customers that were hesitating for quite some time now are suddenly calling me to place their final order, and it seems to be triggered by me thinking about giving them a call.

[silent-tortoise]

just wanted to put my little contribution in here. Dr Robert Anthony said in one of his books that we should live in the moment and be happy now, which sounds like the practice of Meditation to me. By doing this we will be "vibrating" gratitude and the Universe, collective Unconcious mind cannot help but help. I have had great experience of this over the last few months. I would like to share my experiences with this Community when I can fully comprehend what has happened to me. Edwin, keep doing what you are doing. Live in the moment and be happy now.

[Edwin]

Thanks !

It's always easyer to stay motivated when people encourage you.

Every now and then the "doom and gloom" thoughts try to enter my mind, and it takes quite an effort to change the way I feel.

I will keep on trying !

[Edwin]

It's really really weird, but every time I follow silent-tortoises advice about living in the Now, and feeling happy and content with the Now, the LOA gives almost direct results.
I can focus all the attention on the LOA on other days, and try for hours, and get no results when I am cought up in my mind with its constant clutter.

I am now trying to live in awareness constantly, and while doing that there is no place for worries, negative thoughts or feelings. I feel amazing during those moments.
Awareness and meditation have changed who I am for quite some time now, and it feels more real somehow, the world and us.

Businesswise things are picking up, but not as soon as I would have wanted sometimes, but focussing on the Now has helped greatly in feeling better, and slowly but surely the LOA seems to work better as I feel better every day.

When I started this blog my main focus was on my business and the LOA, now I feel a shift going on in my mind. I feel the focus is on becoming the real me more than becoming a successfull businessman. I somehow have this trust that this will happen automatically as I grow spiritually.

[Edwin]

Just started on LifeFlow 1 !

Amazing sounds, I feel like Jaqcues Coustau ! Anyone who has allready heard LF1 knows what I mean.
Yesterday evening was my first meditation with it, and I can safely say I have not been so physically relaxed before in my entire life. I can only compare it with sunbathing, when you feel the sun warming you up from inside due to the sunrays going deep into your body to finally be turned into heat !

Nothing more to report, just that I had a wonderfull meditation

Oh yeah, I managed to stay completely calm during 2 small crisises ( hope that is a word, my Dutch is better :P ) at the business this week. I had them solved a heck of a lot sooner than usual too !

I feel as if, when I would have started to worry over them, it would have cost me a lot more trouble and money and effort to solve them, now things just seemed to "flow" right... can't explain it...

[Imed]

Hey Edwin, reading your post makes me really excited for LF1. I am only on LF 7 right now though so I got a long way to go LOL. But I know it's not bad that I have a long way to go because I know I will enjoy every single Level on my way down to 1. Just out of curiosity, how much time did you spend on each level before you moved on to the next one?

Love,
Eric

[Edwin]

I started on LF around december Imed Because I had been meditating before that, I did the first levels in a month, and later on moved to 2 months.
I took most time with LF2, I think it took me almost 3 months before I switched to LF1.

I just followed my feelings, switched when I was ready.
I also used to switch back to other tracks every now and then, I still enjoy LF10 when I am doing work that doesn't requiere much concentration. It's kinda like I am doing a form of mindfullness meditation during those jobs. I am pretty sure every job has "boring" chores, and those are perfect for this.

check this link Imed:
How To Guide item :: Million Meditators :: Million Meditators

This guide really helped me to achieve a meditative state while working

there are more of those guides there, I liked a lot of them:

How To Guide item :: Million Meditators :: Million Meditators

Read all you can about meditation, get into it as much as you can, plan your meditations ahead, and the time you want to spend for it, make your meditations longer the longer you meditate, learn to use your breath in the daytime to relax, stop every now and then with what you are doing to just breathe deeply 3 times and go back to work... and read back this post every now and then :P

[flossie]

Originally Posted by pollyanna

Hi Edwin, I felt you were having a hard time and I have been thinking of you and wondering how I could help. My move to France which includes all my children and grandhildren which is 9 of us and 4 dogs was done the hard and painful way. I wouldn't have done it for money. It was a complete life changing decision and everyone has benefitted hugely from it. Through LifeFlow meditation and understanding our map of reality and resistance coupled up with a much better understanding of the Law of Attraction I am now doing "the happy version" as I call it of attraction. I just posted a new thread I believe will give you all the answers and peace of mind too!! Happiness and joy

Hi Polly

i was just reading this and wondered what you meant by hard and painful way??? isnt LOA supposed to make the process easier etc? maybe i misunderstand it all so would really like to hear your views on it all

[pollyanna]

Hi Flossie,
I hope the following allows the statements I made to be more clearly understood. When I read "Think and grow rich" and met some successful people who told me I could be, do and have anything I had a burning desire for, it blew my mind to be honest and fortunately I fell for it hook, line and sinker. I literally went on blind faith I believe.

Then came the battles and struggles The major one being, I already had a strong belief system (map of reality as Michael calls it) that it's very difficult to enter the gates of heaven if you are rich

I devoured books and tapes for self growth (I could write a book on this point but I will save you all the details) The outcome was that I developed a new map of reality over time and came to believe that there is absolutely nothing wrong at all in becoming financially independant.

Also, I had a deep burning desire for many years which was my personal prayer (Please understand I am not preaching in any way here, it is simply the way I believed at that time) which was "Dear God, please let me be a good mother and wife and if I had the power to help thousands of people, I swear I will never let you down")

Well, when I realized we all have the power I was on a mission.

Do you know when you travel by aeroplane and the air hostess tells you in case of emergency put your own oxygen mask on first before you help your little ones? well, I had a problem with this statement - it seemed selfish. Like all parents in times of hardship, you feed and cloth your children before you take care of your own needs.

Again I had to change some ways of thinking - I completely understand and accept this rule now - with flying that is, not food and clothing The point is I had to succeed myself before I could help others do the same.

Basically, I was £80,000 in debt and the bank were ready to reclaim our family home.

I made a vision board and made the following list of things I wanted for my family:-
To live in the country, in a safe environment where families can socialize together and enjoy the wonder of nature.
To know my children can socialize and not be around binge drinking and the dangers of what happens with this.
To live in a place where the label of your clothes is unimportant.
To run a family business from home and not be caught up in daily traffic jams.
To say goodbye forever to a boss.
To live within an hours drive of the beaches in a warmer climate.
A swimming pool to keep cool, play and exercise.
A lake nearby so my husband could relax while fishing.
To walk through patio doors with our dogs and just keep walking in our own grounds and woodland so you don't have to bother with leads and you don't have to bundle the dogs in the car to drive somewhere before you even start walking I know, but it's brilliant If I choose to take mini breaks away from the computer screen and walk among the trees in any type of weather, it's heaven

How I think I did it the hard way was I was hell bent on making this happen. I was totally determined and whatever it took I was going to achieve this for my family. I became all consumed. I worked under stress and pressure and made myself ill sometimes.

I made sure I always took time to listen to my children, however I worked unbelievable hours, never switched off and didn't enjoy or live in the now

Was it worth it? Without a shadow of a doubt - life is amazing - and it is so not about money because we budget more than we ever did - we use 2 cars instead of 4.

I am now working on bigger dreams and my true purpose which Michael has played a great part in. Although we have our family business (which we are still building), through Project Meditation I have the opportunity to help thousands of people. Michael even very kindly allowed my request to have a Law of attraction area on here.

I know I will fulfill my purpose and future dreams, however I will always take the time to meditate with LifeFlow, live in the now and smell the beautiful roses along the way. I know this was long but if it helps one person to find inner peace and fulfill their dreams, then it was worth it. I wish you joy and happiness on your journey of self discovery