The law of attraction is very simpel

[GilesC]

Hi April (lovely name btw, but I would say that as it's my birth month )

Originally Posted by flossie

dear all really really interesting thread. i have been reading up on LOA for about a year now and even have a sort of life coach (via e mail). but still i find it so hard to implement. i seem to be able to do it for things i can control like a job where I can take actions, study, apply etc but i have problems where things are more intangiable. i really desire a relationship but cant believe it will happen. i iknow that is stopping it as i can feel and believe in it enough to let it go and not focus on a lack. BUT... and here is the big but...what noone seems to be able to tell me is how you start to really feel it, do you have to feel it all the time etc.

Well, I wouldn't want to step on the toes of your life coach (being a life coach myself, amongst my other talents ), so it would be interesting to know what your life coach has given you as guidance in respect of your desire for a relationship.

i really desire a relationship but cant believe it will happen

Unfortunately, if you keep telling yourself that you will simply re-enforce that belief. So let's start to change that belief shall we. *you nod in agreement at this point*

How about a little exercise for you to practice...

I prescribe you a positive affirmation to be repeated 10 times and administered 3 times a day. Something along the lines of...

"I am in a happy and fullfilling relationship"

The thing with positive affirmations is that you don't have to necessarily consciously believe what you are saying. By repeating the affirmation you awaken your unconscious mind to the belief that the statement is true. It will then raise it's awareness to anything that occurs around you that fits in with that unconscious belief, therefore giving the appearance of having things drawn to you that you need to make it true. This is the law of attraction at work.

If you want to create your own positive affirmation remember the golden rules: Always state it as if you already have it and in the present tense. Your unconscious mind will not work with things in the future or with wants and desires. Make it believe it's already there now.

Hugs

Giles