demiss333
I think i forgot to answer ur quastion about desire.
Desire is the engine of ur development.
thougths dont control the desire, the desire controls the thougths.
fx if i dont desire a car, i dont even give them a thougth on the street, or when i c one i just register that it is a car, nothing about the brand or íts class or what so ever. if i do desire, many thoughts starts to come up fx what freedom one of them could giv me, the opertunitis, and i might start save money, or go on the net and c sites whit them everday. well to understand this isue is to understand there is not one simpel mechanisem that make us function true out ur lifes, there is many, and they are all somekinde conected to each others. fx the natural prosses we all go true dos make us desire to have partner, and have kids whit that partner. we do desire to use time at work instead of adventur because we want to make sure we can take care of ur childes, and we start think about ways to improve ur selfs so we can earn more. when we desire a special partner, or simpely a special kinde of a partner is becaus, we desire a good parent for our kids. but that is not how we think about it, we say i fall in love, becaus the person was so charme, sweet, kinde, and so on. all thise things we tell about the person is just conferming us that the person will be a good parent. there is also survivel mechanisems, and some are so deeply rooted in desire that we cant realy tell them apart most of the time. fx the desir of happynees is more then just a desir, the desire in happynees is fullfilling a part of the survivel mechanisem, a human need to spend social time whit peopel, good experienc, love, succes and so on to keep it self healty and in good shape mentaly in order to stay alive. that is y we all desire to be happy, and those who are happy, take aaction/steeps to stay in that way.
so u c desire dos control ur thoughts and the way we think. and actualy speak, behave.
i hope that i did at least give u a positiv perspektiv of thougts, and desire.
or just a alternetiv one.
sincerly Ylmz
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