I have found with the teachings of the secret is if helps you to focus on what is important to you. I know I have a tendency to think of others first, too much, and in that process forget about myself. If you are not happy and if you do not feel good about what you are doing or why you are doing it you are not being successful. I was doing for others out of obligation because of what I was taught in the past and resenting it. I now have changed that belief and do for others because I want to0, not because I have to.
We all come from different places in our past and different belief systems which can marr the true person we really are. I know that I cannot help someone fully until I know who I really am and what I really believe and I should not believe something just because someone said so.
The secret has been good to me but, when they tell you things will come to you fast it is true, and the things that you have been thinking of negatively will come as fast as the postive. I was surprised greatly by this last Friday and learned carefully how you can shift your day with gratitude, appreciation and thankfulness.
