Ta-tsu-wa, thank you so much for responding to my post. I really appreciate your taking the time to both read and respond.
Just as an update, I tried to talk to my partner last night - mainly about the issue with my daughter - as things have been so calm while she is away. Unfortunately he said he would prefer to leave than live with the situation as he sees it. He feels that she doesn't respect him which is now true of course. He will not consider counselling.
I never thought of counselling for the boys or my daughter. I think you are so right and can't believe I didn't think of it before. I do believe the boys are not getting a good view of how people - particularly women - should be treated. And my daughter is not being shown how she should expect to be treated.
Thanks again for your help. I will continue to meditate and visualise and will encourage my daughter and sons to do so too.
Many thanks for shining a light for me.
Last edited by Fran2008 : July 10th, 2010 at 01:42.
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