Personal Development
Hi Pollyanna. Firstly, I am in awe of you. You really walk the walk and are an inspiration. Your wisdom seems to go way beyond any number of years. Only an interesting life and person can result in so much wisdom.
I do need some help in visualising. My story - I married young, had a beautiful daughter. The marriage broke up and I was devastated, broken. My daughter and I had a tough time but came through it and are very close. She is now 21 and my best friend. I met someone else and due to the fact that I was still very damaged I accepted and continue to accept a relationship which is less than perfect for me, but not awful. We have 3 young boys we both adore. They are aged 5, 3, 1.
My partner hates my daughter - this started when she was a teenager and has escalated so he now cannot be in the same room as her and never speaks to her. Of course, she now has no respect for him. Both because of how he treats me and how he treats her. This has had a terrible effect on my relationship with my daughter as we are never relaxed together at home. She stays in her room if he is at home.
She is away at the moment and the house is very peaceful. But that is just not good enough.
So it is within my power to change all this.
Luckily, I am financially secure for now and already pay for everything for the boys and myself. I own my house.
I am at a loss - how do I find the right path to visualise? Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Last edited by Fran2008 : July 10th, 2010 at 01:41.
Reason: I have told some friends about this site as I believe Lifeflow and the site will benefit them greatly. my post is deeply personal and very detailed. I believe my partner would be very upset.
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