Hello everyone. I am fairly new to the Law of Attraction. I started using the LOA back in June but I have had some remarkable changes in my life since then and great things just seem to keep coming. I thought I would reply to this thread to fill you in on my take with disappointments. I noticed along the way something I did not like would happen and at the time it felt like it wasn't in line with my goal. This happened several times but what I have learned is that LOA will move you in the direction that is the best route for you to take. Later I noticed that these disappointments served a greater purpose. For instance, I am a DJ and have always wanted to make people feel good at the parties I play at. I have attracted what I have always wanted which is to have a consistent booking of parties where I could perform and make people feel good. There was one time when one of my gigs was cancelled and I couldn't help thinking "why did that happen?" "Did I attract this somehow?" I felt disappointed but I made myself continue to feel grateful and kept concentrating on the end result. It turns out I got a call last week that they found an even better venue that is 10 x's better than the old one and they want me back. Not only that, they want me to be their headliner dj for all their events and want to market me. This is simply amazing.
So you see, the disappointments may be a change in route to lead you to an even better route. Your end destination will still be what you have imagined it to be. Know this. What is also funny is when I played at the old venue I couldn't help but think "I am so grateful for this gig but if they had this or that at the party it would be even better." The new venue they booked me for had everything I imagined in mind. I can spend hours figuring out how this happened. Did I attract and even better venue which had all the characteristics of what I imagined? Did the LOA figure this is the best route and purposely cancel the old venue the party was held at. Who knows? Now I understand that it is not our job to figure out how. Feel wonderful for what you have now, feel great for what tomorrow brings now, and your life will begin to unfold exactly to your liking. When disappointment arises just realize and say to yourself..."ok that probably wasn't the best route to take or this is a blessing in disguise. I'm sure an even better route or opportunity is already in place for me."
Hope this helps.
Franz
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